Hey dear, are you in love with a guy? and one question always hits your mind that is he loves me or not? As long as we are, you have nothing to worry about it. If your love is true and you truly love him, then your love will surely succeed.

But you need to know if the person in front of you loves you that much. Because love succeeds when both love each other. You pay a hundred per cent effort on your behalf but you don’t know if the person in front is paying a hundred per cent effort.

Men’s are not as much as complicated as women’s. They always show what’s inside them and if we say about their feeling for you then they must express their positive signs to you. But you must have some knowledge about the signs he loves you deeply.

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How do I know he loves me?

Whether you notice that your partner feels comfortable with you and without any hesitation, he shares everything with you then you are sure that he wants to connect with you always and wants to build a relationship with you.

It’s needy to know that he is comfortable with you as a friend or lover. Because there is little difference shown between friendship and relationship. So you are not a mind reader to know what’s going on inside his mind.

All men are not the same. But the guy who loves you, he behaves in predictable ways. Before knowing his feelings and thinking about how you start your journey. You must know how to make safe my relationship? By keeping an eye out for specific signs, you can get a good sense of how truly in love with you?

Observe his activities and behaviour.

The first step to know he loves you or not is observing his all activities and behaviours towards you. Always observations give you an accurate answer and it also works here.

As a mature person, you understand what’s going on in his mind. But one question that comes to your mind is what I observe? You notice these things in your partner.

You observe how he treats you.

If he loves you and wants to marry you then he treats you like a queen and respects you in his behaviour and his words. He listens to you and worries about you.

He notices what you like and what you dislike and he does everything to give you your favourite thing. If he doing all these things honestly then it’s a positive sign for you.

Observe his willingness to spend time with you.

When a guy loves you in all his heart then he always wants to spend time with you. He never makes excuses for your calling. He meets you on a regular basis and creates times for you in his busy schedule then he truly loves you.

And also notice that when you both are together and talk with each other he keep his phone aside and only focuses on you. You both are never know how much time you spend together.

Notice how much time he calls you to meet.

Exactly I mean to say that why you call him to meet? Wait for his call and see how much he is interested to meet you and see you. If he never waits for your invitations or plans for a date, he does everything first for you then you must assure him that he loves you.

Always give him chance to show his love and willingness to come closer to you. And notice what he does and what’s going on in his mind. He takes the initial step or not. If he cares and loves he must take.

Observe how much he compromises for you.

Compromises and sacrifices are the basic things in a healthy and strong relationship. So how much he compromises for you and your relationship matters. It doesn’t mean only he sacrifices or compromises, you both do your part properly.

For example, you like to see a movie but he doesn’t like it, but he takes you to a movie and he also watches that with interest. He likes chocolate ice cream and you give him a vanilla flavour and he never says “No” just take it for your happiness. That means he loves you from every angle.

When you want to know “if he loves me” then notice that he cares for your little things.

Real happiness is hidden in little things and it works to increase the closeness and sweetness in the relationship. When your partner notices your little things and takes care of your every necessary and unnecessary thing then you pink sure that he loves you.

For example, you live your handkerchief on the table in the restaurant he keeps that carefully. Or you forget to charge your phone and he charged the phone or you need water and he gives you so many little things he does for you. Care for you is the best part of love.

Interpreting his communication with you.

Communication is making a relationship and breaking a relationship. So it’s a matter to assess the communication between you both. But what things are you interpreting in his communication? Don’t worry just watch all these things which are described below.

Notice how he communicates with me if he loves me…

When he regularly calls you and takes care of you then it’s a green signal for your relationship. If he calls once a week or just says something, it’s not a good sign for you. So you notice first these things.

And also notice that he calls you first or he just talks to you when you call him. And also how much time have you both connected with calls it’s matter. If you never received his calls he, again and again, called you because he worried about you.

Watch him on social media platforms and know whether he loves me or not.

Nowadays everyone uses Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram, telegrams, Skype, Twitter and many apps. Your partner is also active on these platforms. Do you notice him online? If you are not using these apps he says to use and connect with him.

He likes and comments on your photos and when he posts anything on Facebook he tags you and when he sees you online, he suddenly messages you and chats with you. Most of the time he posts on Facebook romantic videos, romantic love quotes or images and dedicates them to you. And sometimes he restricts you to don’t talk to someone. If you do these things then you are sure about your relationship and your partner.

Watch him if he remembers your special days then he loves you.

At the beginning of your relationship, your partner definitely asks you about your birthday or other special days. And you just wait for your special days and see if he wishes or not. He wishes you first or not. When someone wants to close you or love you he wants to wish first and make you feel special. This is a point.

Next, if he doesn’t wish you ‘Happy Birthday‘ first then don’t worry he may plan a surprise party for you at night and give you surprise gifts. So wait for the last moments and take any action. Most people also keep their partner’s Happy Birthday on Facebook and WhatsApp statuses for you or post your birthday on social media to make people know that he loves you.

Watch him that he fights more or cares more if he loves me…

Fights are the different types you notice that what type of fights happen between the two. Love fights are good for your relationship and reasonable fights also help to come closer and know each other’s personalities. If you notice that he avoids fights or diverts your discussion on another topic then he never cares about you.

It doesn’t mean that you are always ready to fight each other. If he does some mistakes then he apologizes to you. If the conversation is moving toward arguments then try to solve it but never avoid that. When you both place your opinion you both understand each other’s mentality.

When you want to know whether he loves me or not then give attention to his speeches.

Respectfully saying is also a part of love but keep attention to his words. If he always talks about his or your future or uses the word “we” or “together” or “us” or “our” then he is serious about you and your relationship.

All these things indicate that he always thinking about his future with you. And his thinking starts with you. Here the word “I love you” is not more important to say.

Try to understand why he doesn’t say “I love you”.

If you cover all these things then you must want to you why he doesn’t say the word ” I love you”. Where he does everything for you as a boyfriend does for his girlfriend. After all why he doesn’t say? So we discuss that topic below. And in your partner’s case, it may be one of the reasons why he doesn’t say “I love you”.

He may be afraid to lose you or your rejection.

He wants to stay with you and spend time with you. He likes you and loves you but he has a fear in his mind. He has a fear to lose you and is afraid of your rejection. First of all, he wants some hints from your side and he makes sure that you also feel for him.

When he says these three words then your relationship is converted from friendship to relationship. And it’s not easy for everyone to take a step towards. So, you must make him feel that you love him and this is the secret of a successful relationship.

Try to understand what happened with him in past.

When a person has a bad experience in his past and lost a person whom he loves most. Then he has a fear of losing you in his life. So he wants to stay with you and spend time with you and keep his relationship constant.

So feel his emotion and give him the courage and support to heal the wound. And you build trust in your relationship. If he wants some time then you give him. After all, he says “I love you”.

How do I know he loves me through text?

Texts are not a window to the soul but they say a lot about what’s going on in your boyfriend’s heart. So, sometimes we focus on these text messages and try to understand his feelings for you.

If he loves you then he sends you to love messages or love quotes to you. Because he wants to make you feel that he loves you.

Here we point out some common things that indicate your significant other is in love with you or already you both are in a relationship. So let’s start:

Signs to know he loves me through text.

Regularly he sends you good morning and good night messages.
He messages you at any time in the day and never thinks you are free or not.
Every night he sleeps after talking with you and saying “take care” “good night”.
If you never replay his messages he continues sending messages to you and waiting for your reply.
In his messages, you notice that he is worried and disturbed when you never replied.
When you feel sad or sick he cheers you and encourages you to feel good and stay good.
Most of the time he tries to know about your favourite dish, serial, place, heroin, hero, costume, and so on.
You both talk with each other for a long period and never feel bored.
He asks you about your family members, relatives, and friends. And also asks you about your family members’ health.
Maximum time your conversation stats from your partner’s side, it doesn’t mean you never start messaging him.
You also notice that he sends love-related emojis and images to you to show he cares and loves you.
Every occasion, function, festival, he wishes you and on your exam or interviews he said you a “best of luck”.
On your birthday or another special day always the first wishes come from him.
He never fights with you on little things because he tries to understand your situations and solve the problem.

How do I know he loves me truly?

True love is shown in his activities, his way of talking, his behaviour and his willingness. If you only want to hear these three words “I love you” then believe that he loves you. Then it’s not fair.

Some people say million times “I love you” but they exactly do not love you truly. So words are not everything that you want. Love is real, untouchable, pure and soft. You just feel it from your heart, not in your mind.

Your partner says “I love you” If not that does not matter. Do you just want to know whether he loves me or not? So don’t worry. We are here for you to help in your struggling period. So let’s start to know what are the signs that indicate he loves you.

Signs he loves me truly.

He always wants you, your hand, your help, your opinion, your advice and your support.
Sharing is caring. So he shares with you his everyday life and wants to know how’s your day has gone.
Sometimes he takes hard decisions but it’s only for you and your good future.
When he sees that you are sick or have any problem he feels sad inside but encourages you outside
He has a fear of losing you in his life. So he never does any work that has hurt you or you feel unhappy.
When he is having any problem he first calls you and wants your suggestion or help and mostly he wants to update you.

Clear signs he loves me truly.

He never forgets the little things you do for him and also remembers your every date, your fun moments.
Willingness to help you, protect you, stand by your side and so on is only doing a true lover.
He openly said that you are his soulmate and never hesitate to take you to a public place.
If he has any bad habits he leaves all these things and avoids that for the sake of your happiness.
Sometimes he feels jealous and angry when he saw you with other people or you feel more happy and comfortable with other friends.
He restricts not doing some things because he wants you and loves you so much.
Many times you want to leave him but he tries to connect with you in different ways and feels apologise for his mistakes.
He changes himself for your wish and he makes him what you like. He does everything for you.

If a person loves you truly then he never leaves your hand at any cost. Stay with you up and down, good or bad situation. He is always with you.

However, you love a partner who does all these things for you then don’t miss the guy in your life. He is only for you and you just show him how much love him.

How do I know he loves me for real?

If you feel for someone and you want that he also feels for you. You date him and spend some time with him. Attracts him. After all, a question always disturbs you “he loves me for real?”

But one thing you also know is that “actions are said louder than words” and you just keep your mind focused on his actions and reactions. And you know he is real or just for fun.

Life long partnership is different in their behaviour and their actions also show politeness. You attract him or you feel for him is not just happen immediately. It’s a process. So don’t worry about that just look at these points and use them in future.

After knowing these points you somehow understand whether your partner is real or not. If yes, then keep up, if no then put you stop there and wait for his reaction. Let’s start with the points.

Signs to know he loves me for real.

He never hesitates to spend time in public places.
Introduce you to his family, friends and relatives and also wants to close with your family and friends.
Helps you in your difficult time and motivates you to heal the situation.
Makes you feel happy and energetic and wish to spend these happy moments together.
He has fully trusted you and your feelings, words, actions and decisions.
Always takes care of you and your family members. He works like your family member.
Wish to spend his whole life with you and makes you his soulmate.
He shares his worst days with you and he feels safe and comfortable with you.
Not afraid to move your relationship one step forward and both come closer to each other.
First, he attracts you emotionally and then physically. He never forced you for anything.

Clear signs to know he loves me for real.

Respects you and your feelings. Gives you a big heart to stay and share what hurts you.
He learns compromises for you and your happiness. And sometimes he sacrifices for you.
If you go somewhere he feels lonely in and never tolerates that distance. He always wants to connect with you.
He fights with you for little things and these are called love fights which help to grow your love.
Tells you what he thinks about you and what he feels for you. Sometimes he feels shy and smiles to see you.

If you feel that not every point but maximum points are shown in your partner’s case then you confirm that his love is real for you.

He wants to make you his behalf and spend his life with you. Give him some time and tell him what you feel for him.
In some cases, some differences are shown. But in most cases, these things appear and are common. You just wait for the right time and end your struggling period.

How do I know he loves me in a long-distance relationship?

We know that surviving a long-distance relationship is very tough and spending your days without your partner is hurts you a lot. You just feel them imaginary because you never feel him in real.

Nowadays most people live in long-distance relationships or some are starting their long-distance relationships with long-distance partners. Both types of couples are living long distances but their stages of love is different.

If you are the second type then you must want to know whether he loves you or not. So, we posted some common signs that he loves you in a long-distance relationship. You focus your partner’s on these signs and make sure that ” he loves me”.

He loves me in a long-distance relationship.

Trust is most important in a relationship. So, he trusts you and your words and never doubts you for other people’s statements.
He shows respect for you and your feelings and mostly the decision you make without him.
When he talks with you, he says about his future with you and makes some future plans where he mentions you.
Always try to make you happy and healthy in future and wants to get you a better life.
In the Most unexpected ways and unexpected moments, he expresses his love to you and makes you feel happy.
He appreciates and encourages your goals and ambitions and celebrates your achievements.
Let you live your independent and happy life and give you all assistance to enjoy your freedom.
When he makes promises, he keeps his promise and he doesn’t make promises that he can’t keep.
He never misses any chance to connect with you because he has an enthusiasm to spend time with you.
Always he says the word “we” and avoids the word “I”. He makes you feel together.

Finding true love in your long-distance relationship is a gift from God. But continuing your long-distance relationship is totally depends upon you both. This continued process is very difficult and challenging.

But if there is true love then you definitely succeed in your long-distance relationship.

How do I know he loves me without saying it?

When you love someone you never say “I Love You” at first. You just take some time to yourself and your love. But when you are fully attracted to him/her then and feel for him/her then you say “I love you”.

But you express your feelings when you see some positive sign from your significant others. He doesn’t say “I love you” it doesn’t mean he never loves you. Some people are not good at vocabulary.

So, they do not share their feelings with you in words. But they show some signs that they love you. Let’s know what are those signs that he loves you.

Physical signs and emotional signs are conformed you that “he loves me” and without getting late you share your feelings and build a happy and healthy relationship.

How do you know if a guy loves you without saying it?

This is the top question how do you know if a guy loves you without saying it? Every man is not the same. All are different and their behaviour, characteristics, attitude and manner are also different.

So, they show their love in different ways. But saying “I love you” or “Will you marry me” or “Are you wants to be on my behalf” is easy to know that the person is loving you. But without saying all these things how do you he loves you or not?

We make all impossible works possible for you. So, don’t worry! Just notice these simple things and know whether he loves you or not. If yes, then celebrate your love.

Signs of a guy loves you without saying it.

When you both meet a smile comes to his face.
Always likes to stay with you and spend all the time with you.
On social media platforms, he is always active for you and likes your all posts.
He likes to listen to your words and never divert their attention when you talk with him.
Your achievements are his achievements and he celebrates them like you both are the same.
He gifts you, your favourite things and likes to surprise you.
Sometimes he touches you and makes you feel that he loves you and wants you.
For every problem and critical situation he needs you and wants your opinion.
He shares his secrets and weak points with you because he likes to share with you.
When you go somewhere he misses you and he feels lonely in his relationship without you.
He respects you everywhere it may be a private or public place.
Your favourite dishes is also his favourite and all your favourite things are also favourite for him
You notice that he wear the dresses you like most or your gifts to him.
When you share some special moments or accidental moments with him he never stops listening to you.
He gives compliments on your costume and notices your little changes.

How do you know if he is serious about you?

It’s hard to know if he is serious about you or not. But it’s not impossible to know what your partner feels for you. Before thinking anything negative just focus on positive things and start to give your love to your significant other.

Here we cover some common signs which show that he is serious about you. We know that we never cover everything because everyone has their own experiences and own ways of showing they care about you.

But it might assist alleviate your mind and reassure you that he is serious about you. So don’t get late to start our serious journey.

He attentively listens to you.
Always ask questions to you for your safety.
He is committed to you and shows commitment in their own ways.
Your partner keeps a willing heart to compromise for you and your relationship.
He apologizes to you when he needs to.
After knowing about your real life, he is still with you.
He makes future planning with you and takes all decisions with you.
You know his all friends and family members because he wants to introduce you to them.
He makes you feel considered because he cares for you and thinks about you.
Your meetings with your partner is happens many times because he makes effort to meet you.
He gives priorities to you and your point of view.
Your wishes are his wishes and he tries to fulfil these wishes and makes you happy.
He enjoys the time he spends with you and wants to spend more time with you.
On all social media platforms, you both are connected and enjoyed.
He treats you like his queen and respects you in both private places and public places.

Bottom Line from progrowinlife.

The relationship is not a child’s game when you want to play. It’s a lifelong commitment. Where both parties are committed to each other. Before you decide on your future or your relationship you must know about your partner and his feelings.

If you love someone and date him then notice all these above points in your partner’s activities and behaviour. So that you never feel guilty about your past mistakes. Make sure that your partner is perfect for you and both are made for each other.

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